Thursday, July 2, 2015

The Faith of "Mother Emmanuel"

My “home” state of South Carolina has been in the news lately. I use quotation marks around home for a good reason. Although I am South Carolina born, on a July morning in the hot and humid city of Columbia, only eight weeks later my mother, brother, and I made our way north to our new home in New Jersey. My South Carolina born and raised father had already begun work in his new job with a corporation based in Manhattan. He never brought his family back. Aside from our daughter’s college stay, our relocation to South Carolina barely five years ago in order for me to become pastor of Seneca Presbyterian Church represents the only sojourn of my immediate family in the Palmetto state since that departure. Yet the fascination of late with my home state of South Carolina fascinates me.
                Growing up far away from the deep south, yet with southern roots, South Carolina was the ancestral home for my father’s family, our Myrtle Beach vacation destination every August, the source of some of the world’s best music, and producer of the world’s finest peaches, which by the way are just now coming into season. God is good!
                Yet up until about two weeks ago, the world saw South Carolina as the birthplace of the confederacy and home to those who celebrate white supremacy. That impression was painfully and sorrowfully captured in the person of Dylann Roof as he took the lives of the nine children of God who welcomed him into their church sanctuary as they were gathered around the Word. He thought his act of evil would ignite a racial war, divide a nation, and empower racial bigotry. Instead, it brought the races together and likely will bring down what has become the symbol of hate that seemed to motivate his actions. Dylann thought the world worked one way; God’s people showed him another way.
                How did everything change so rapidly? It’s a fascinating question with no simple answer.
                First, we must acknowledge that what seems rapid is actually a culmination, the sudden burst of light that is the fruit of long faithful work and diligent faithful witness. I do not think that the legislature of the state of South Carolina would have been moved to secure the 2/3 majority needed to remove the flag were it not for the person of Clementa Pinckney. They knew him. He had been their colleague in the house and senate for 18 years. They knew his calm but persistent voice along with his compassionate and embracing heart. And they know how profoundly he will be missed. So they know it’s time for the flag to come down – in honor of their friend and in opposition to the hate and violence that took his life.
                Second, I think change has come so rapidly because Dylann Roof crossed the line. Of course, he crossed the line of violence in the taking of innocent lives. Yet others have died before. Dylann crossed the church line; he violated a sacred southern space. He abused God-breathed hospitality. It was a hospitality that even almost stayed the killer’s hand. “They were so nice to me.”
                The witness of those lives and the testimony of their families continue to change hearts. Many have been astounded at the words of forgiveness spoken when grief was only a few days young. Many question how that could happen and know they could never overcome the anger that understandably dwells within a human heart at such a tremendous loss. They wonder if such rapid grace is a vestige of the racial divide that always placed our Black brothers and sisters in a position of deference.
                For me, it is a vestige of our racial divide, but one less insidious. It is a reminder to me of the power of faith known and lived by our Black brothers and sisters. When you live in a world that treats you as second-class and unworthy then come into God’s house where the message of grace is preached with power, you absorb that grace in amazing ways. Not to enable deference to power but in order to be a witness to power – a witness to the heart of Christian faith.
                Forgiveness doesn’t negate justice; it enables it. It breaks the cycle of violence. It sees the guilty one with God’s eyes. They are the same eyes that see us as just as guilty and just as much in need of grace. Yes - we still pay the human price for our sins. Yes - we are still accountable for our actions. Atonement is still the pathway toward reconciliation, but forgiveness becomes the first step; not the last.  
                I discovered recently that one of my ministerial friends knew Rev. Pinckney. They shared a CPE (Clinical Pastoral Education) experience together. She says he was in life everything everyone is saying about him in death. A man who walked the talk. I know that must be true. His people are living proof. They are the ultimate testimony to the effectiveness of pastoral leadership; a witness every pastor would covet.
                 It remains to be seen what lasting legacy will come from this terrible loss of life. Will the flag actually come down? But more important still, will we begin the hard journey of acknowledging our past and claiming our future across the divisions that still own us?
                Our president said it eloquently: “God helped us to see where we were blind.” Let us not be blind to the heritage of history. Slavery was evil. That truth is self-evident today. Yet my ancestors who owned slaves were not evil people. They were good people who were blind to the evil that existed all around them.  In like manner, let us not be blind to the truth of our reality. Racism is evil and it exists all around us, even if we who are not its targets can just as easily be blind to its power.

                Let’s move beyond taking down a flag. Let’s work together to bring life out of death – abundant life for all God’s children. 

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Why would a church need a nurse?

Seneca Presbyterian Church will commission our Parish Nurse Ernie Lombard at both worship services on November 9. It will be a day to celebrate the long tradition of Christian congregations being involved in the ministry of healing. I first heard of the concept of a Parish Nurse – they are also called Faith Community Nurses – in the late 80s while serving St. John’s Baptist Church in Charlotte, NC. Presbyterian Hospital had received a grant from the Duke Endowment to place Parish Nurses in six Charlotte congregations. Since St. John’s sits right beside Presbyterian Hospital, it was logical for that congregation to be approached with the possibility. Tom was pastor at the time and he was intrigued by the idea. I was a bit of a skeptic.
                I reasoned that just about all the thousand plus members of St. John’s had access to good doctors and medical care. Why did we need a Parish Nurse? It did not take long for me to turn from skeptic to supporter.
                I watched as Dianne took blood pressures during office hours while listening to the challenges of aging. I saw her step into a medical crisis where a wife was all alone in making life and death decisions for her suddenly critically ill husband. She interpreted medical data for me, and help many stay just as healthy as possible. She organized a congregation as it responded to the hospice needs of a member dying with cancer. And she helped us understand the AIDS epidemic. Remember: this was the late 80s and churches did not know how to respond to the fears of a new and frightening health care challenge.
                Our SPC Parish Nurse has been on the job since the first of August. The world of health care is a bit different now than in was in the 80s. People check their own blood pressures at home. But they are also called upon to perform nursing duties at home that in the not so distant past would have been done by nurses in hospitals. Remember when we actually stayed in the hospital a couple of days after surgery? Now it’s often in and out on the same day.
                Retirees make up the bulk of membership at Seneca Presbyterian Church. Many are “young” and vital, traveling freely to see the wonders of the world and the wonders of their grandchildren. But many have slowed down from that pace. They stay close to home. They live with the pain of aging joints. They know what it’s like to see numerous doctors on a regular basis. Often their extended families are not nearby. Many don’t have children or grandchildren around to help out when a medical crisis hits. So we have Ernie to help us assess how we can be church for each other, deal with medical devices that come home with post-op patients, and see to it that folk get to physical therapy sessions when needed. And so very much more. 
                Parish Nursing began in Chicago in 1985. It has been a recognized nursing specialty since  1997. It is estimated that there are over 10,000 Parish Nurses in the United States and around the world. (You can learn more at www.parishnurses.org.) By bringing this aspect of health care into churches, we acknowledge the divine gift that is our bodies. We can support each other in keeping them just as strong as they possibly can be. But the relationship also works the other way. We can bring faith in the spiritual aspects of healing to the medical world. Because when you place your faith in the God who creates bodies, the Son who healed them, and the Spirit who brings peace when they are challenged, you realize there is vast difference between curing disease and healing lives.
                If you want to see more of what that means, I recommend checking out Ed’s Story. It is a video series produced by Flannel (www.flannel.org). Ed is a retired pastor with ALS. As his journey is highlighted in these videos, we see honesty, despair, grief, challenge, hope, purpose, and gratitude. We at SPC have our own Ed who is also living with ALS. With the Spirit’s care, Ernie’s guidance, and our love for our Ed, we plan to walk that journey with him and his family.
                In our world, disease is inevitable, and cures may or may not be possible. Healing always is. It comes in the power to claim and live the grace, mercy, peace, and hope of God that surpasses all earthly reality. 

Guess that's why a church needs a Parish Nurse 
- and so does the world.